The Du Pont, The Torch Singer, and The Tobacco Heir


Louisa d’Andelot Carpenter (pictured at the right) was a du Pont heiress and lesbian who carried on with some of the country’s most colorful and glamorous society and theatre folk. She was also involved in one of this nation’s greatest love triangle murder mysteries.

The eldest child of Margaretta du Pont and R.M.M. “Ruly” Carpenter, Louisa Carprenter has been described as tall, blonde, and beautiful and disdainful of cities, shoes, and hotels. She hunted fox and pheasant, and was the first woman master-of-hounds in America. She would become one of the first licensed women pilots.

Louisa’s family owned (and still does own) property and houses just south of Rehoboth Beach, between Silver Lake and the Atlantic Ocean beside “Poodle Beach.” Louisa herself owned a home at #37 Pine Reach in Henlopen Acres. She purchased it in 1966.

There are lots of stories about Louisa Carpenter in Rehoboth. She entertained actress and bon vivant Tallulah Bankhead and other theatre and Hollywood friends on the beach during the late 30’s and early 40’s. She cavorted around in mens’ suits and ties with Eugenia Bankhead, Tallulah’s older sister who was called “Sister.” An June 11, 1937, announcement in the Delaware Coast Press reported Libby Holman and Philip Holmes (an actor who cornered the market playing playing confused, sensitive young men) arriving at Rehoboth by plane on Wednesay evening and staying at the home of Mr. and Mrs. R.M.M. Carpenter at their summer home near Silver Lake.

Louisa traveled in circles where bisexuality and homosexuality were prevalent and even fashionable. She was friends with the likes of Noel Coward, Louise Brooks, and Greta Garbo. And, she enjoyed the company of the more eccentric wealthy, like Marion “Joe” Carstairs — the lesbian, cross-dressing, speedboat-racing, tatooed, Standard Oil heiress who reigned over her own island in the Bahamas.

Louisa married in 1929 at her parents’ insistence. It didn’t last and she divorced in 1931. Around this time, she met Libby Holman, a beautiful theatre and nightclub star. Holman, with her low, sultry voice, was called by many “the first great white torch singer.” She had numerous male and female suitors.

Louisa met Libby at a horse show in Manhattan in 1929 and the attraction was immediate. Louisa invited Libby to sail aboard her father’s yacht “The Galaxy,” anchored off the north shore of Long Island. When Libby arrived the next day, Louisa appeared on deck in white ducks and tennis shoes, stripped to the waist. Their affair began that afternoon and became well-known and, for the most part, accepted within both society and theatre circles. One of Libby’s actress friends fondly referred to Louisa a “he-she” because of Louisa’s fondness for hunting and mens’ clothing. Noel Coward presented them with a special obscene rendition of his song “She’s Funny That Way.”

But Louisa had competition. Smith Reynolds, the North Carolina heir to the Reynolds tobacco fortune, fell in love with Libby and pursued her all over the world. After ten wedding proposals, Libby finally married him in November 1931. Interestingly, Louisa didn’t disapprove – she preferred her lovers to be bisexual.

The Holman-Reynolds marriage was volatile. Libby quickly grew bored in Winston-Salem, and began inviting her friends down to “Reynolda,” the thousand acre estate she and Smith lived on. Louisa was a regular guest, dressed always in masculine attire. The flamboyant and theatrical types didn’t mix well with Reynold’s Carolina crowd. But, they did all enjoy the bootleg booze and champagne he brought in.

At a drunken party on July 4, 1932, Libby began kissing one of Smith’s friends. Then she disrobed before the guests. As the evening and the drinking wore on, Libby and Smith began arguing. When she told him she was pregnant, he went berserk, certain he couldn’t be the father because of impotence problems. Later that evening, a shot rang out from an upstairs bedroom. Smith Reynolds was dead from a bullet through the head and nobody was certain how it had happened.

A grand jury indicted Libby. But, during the legal proceedings, the Reynolds family did an about face and pressured the district attorney to drop all charges. Tired of the tabloid press and certain that a $20 million trust fund would go to the child and not to Libby, they closed the case. The scandal was one of the biggest stories in America in 1932, along with the Lindberg kidnapping and Franklin Roosevelt’s presidential victory. Film producer David O. Selznick even wrote an original story based on the case. It was entitled “A Woman Called Cheap” and reached the screen as “Reckless” in 1935.

Free after the trial, Libby and Louisa raised Libby’s sickly son Christopher Reynolds. Over the next few years, they moved between Delaware and Florida, and Louisa even adopted a daughter she named “Sunny.” Their “Boston marriage” was widely known and accepted. And the two women were often photographed with matching bobbed haircuts, tennis whites, and deep tans — like adolescent country club boys, someone commented.

The relationship matured, faded, yet continued through the 50’s with Libby’s return to theatre life and fabulous parties with stars like Elizabeth Taylor, Truman Capote, Tennessee Williams, and Montgomery Clift. Louisa retreated to the countryside of Delaware and Maryland’s Eastern Shore. On June 18, 1971, Libby Holman committed suicide in the front seat of her Rolls Royce in the garage of her Connecticut mansion. Louisa Carpenter eventually adopted two more children and split her time between her farm near Easton, Maryland, and another farm in Ocala, Florida, where she raised racehorses. She died in 1976 when her private plane crashed near Easton.

The girls are dead, but their story lives on. In Dreams That Money Can Buy, published in 1985, author John Bradshaw discusses Louisa and Libby’s relationship. In 1993, Play Murder premiered. It was written by Canadian playwrite and drag queen Sky Gilbert. As the play unfolds, ambiguities multiply. Is Libby plotting to kill Smith for his money? Does she despise him because he can’t duplicate the slow hand of her lesbian lover Louisa? Is Reynolds impotent and in love with his childhood buddy? Does he commit suicide? The mystery still intrigues.

Everything a Boardwalk Should be


Garish, yet alluring. Crowded with joggers and strollers, fat girls and pretty boys, nitwits and old folks, all suffused with a sensuality reflecting idyllic splendor and urban squalor, natural grace and gauche artifice. This could describe a Paul Cadmus painting or the Rehoboth Beach Boardwalk.

Rehobothians have a love-hate relationship with their Boardwalk, named by the Travel Channel as one of America’s best. The Boardwalk is an acquired taste, much like whiskey. No, make that a White Russian. Something you don’t want all the time, but every now and then…

The mile-long Boardwalk as we know it was built in 1905. Shorter versions existed earlier. The first one in 1873 was made of 8-foot, rough-cut oak slabs and laid across the sand. It has been damaged by big storms in 1914, 1962, 1992 and 1998 and rebuilt each time — thankfully, of wood. Boardwalks in other places are often built of concrete.

Dolle’s Candyland is a Boardwalk landmark, best known for its looming orange sign and salt water taffy. I can’t figure out why people like salt water taffy. It’s not tasty and it sticks to your teeth.

Dolle’s opened in 1927. But, salt water taffy started in Atlantic City in the 1880’s. Supposedly, a shopkeeper’s boardwalk candy store was swamped by the sea in a summer storm. As he was cleaning up, a girl walked in and asked for a bag of taffy. The shop owner sarcastically invited her to help herself to his “salt water taffy.” The name stuck and salt water taffy became the quintessential souvenir of a trip to the seashore and synonymous with boardwalks all along the Atlantic shore. Stroll by Dolle’s and watch the confectioners making the taffy. If you don’t care for it, try the caramel popcorn.

Pizza is another boardwalk staple and popular history says this tradition began on Coney Island in the 1920’s. Grotto Pizza is Rehoboth’s original pizza parlor, founded in 1960. It’s very popular at 1am, but the florescent lights aren’t very flattering. I prefer Louie’s Pizza, a small family parlor just a few steps off the Boardwalk on Rehoboth Avenue, when I’m looking for a slice.
For more than a half century, Thrasher’s has been serving up hot tubs of French fries. I like them as an “après plage” snack with a lot of salt and a few shakes of vinegar. The seagulls are fond of them too, and I love it when a hungry gull snatches a fry right out of the greasy fingers of some unsuspecting child. Oh, the screaming and flailing – like a scene from “The Birds.”

In terms of gay history, the Pink Pony was at the corner of Olive Street and the Boardwalk, where the faux-Victorian Boardwalk Plaza Hotel stands today. During its heyday in the 50’s and early 60’s, it attracted a mixed crowd of straights and gays. One gay couple from Washington remembers Saturday afternoon tea dances where guys would come in off the beach in their trunks – if they were too skimpy you were told to change. Gays made up half of the clientele most Saturday afternoons. They hung out with their cocktails near the planters of plastic plants beside the dance floor.

If you like athletic, sun-bronzed, shirtless young men – and, seriously, who doesn’t – I recommend you check out the Rehoboth Beach Lifeguard Olympics. Held every summer in late July on the beach in front of the Rehoboth Beach Patrol headquarters at the Boardwalk and Baltimore Avenue, it pits squads from Delaware, Maryland, and New Jersey in all sorts of running, swimming, and tugging competitions.

The Rehoboth Beach Patrol was founded in 1921 and its history is well-documented. An official Beach Patrol Historian maintains a collection of old photographs that you can view by appointment. And, if you miss the Olympics, you can always watch the lifeguards exercising most mornings on the beach

Not far from the Beach Patrol is a wigged-out version of the old “Photo-Me-Booths” where you went behind the curtain, slipped some coins in, and came out with a strip of photos. These booths hit their popularity in the 40’s and 50’s on boardwalks and in amusement parks. They’re getting trendy again. Filmmaker Quentin Tarantino just purchased a vintage booth for his home. Check out “Hair Style Illusions” booth just north of Rehoboth Avenue where three dollars buys you photos in bad hairdos. It’s a hoot after a few cocktails.

Four generations of the Fasnacht family have operated Funland amusement park. On summer nights it’s jammed with screaming children, love-struck teens, and the occasional hot daddy. Tickets for rides only cost a quarter, and I recommend the swinging Viking ship. Grab a seat in front and you’ll sail within 5 feet of the neighbor’s living room window. Try your hand at “Wack-a-Mole” and try to hit the mechanical moles with a mallet as they pop up from their holes. The whole Funland experience is sort of like being in a cartoon. It was actually the subject of a film by Delawarean Sharon Kelly Baker. Nothing Beats Fun: The Funland Story debuted at the 2004 Rehoboth Film Festival.

So I challenge you tea-toadlers to take a drink. Order a White Russian. You might just enjoy it.